My First Time I guess it is ironic as I owe this experience to Richard's Realm. Let me explain. I'm a 48 year old married guy, MWM as they say. For the past few years my sex life has gone straight down hill. I love my wife dearly and after 28 years, wouldn't trade her for the world. But I guess male menopause hit me because I felt if I didn't do something I would burst. By coincidence, I read a story in Penthouse Forum where one couple got together with another, the usual swap fantasy. What was different was after the obligatory lesbian encounter between the wives, the asked their husbands for the same thing with it culminating in anal sex between the two men. The story stuck with me and grew as a fantasy, eventually causing me to leave a message in the personals of Richard's Realm. One day as I opened my e-mail I received a message from a guy name Paul (not his real name). He explained that he had the same fantasy, that he wanted to receive anal sex but he had never had the nerve to try. Well, I'm no teenager so I was skeptical, besides, there is a big difference between fantasy and reality. But the more we wrote the more convinced I became that he was for real. Paul was MWM, mid 30's, 6', 205. He had been dwelling on this for a while and even almost connected one time but chickened out. We decided to meet. He was from out of town so we decided to meet at a hotel halfway between and I would check in and leave a message for him (under an assumed name, of course) as to what room I was in. As the appointed day approached, I was getting real nervous, full of self doubt. Several times I almost backed out but I just had to try. I knew I could never have sex with another woman. It would be a betrayal to the woman I loved. But for some odd reason, this did not seem the same. Probably sufficiently convoluted logic to make Freud spin in his grave. Anyway, I drove to the hotel and checked in. After about an hours of nervous tension, there was a knock on the door. I opened the door and there stood a decent enough looking guy who looked as nervous as I felt. We shook hands and introduced ourselves. We went down to the coffee shop to talk and to get out of the room and what it would mean if we returned. As we had coffee we both talked of our fantasies and what brought us to this point. And as we talked, we found we actually liked each other. When we finished the coffee the moment of truth arrived. "Shall we go to the room", I asked? Paul answered "Sure." in anything but a sure voice. When we got back to the room, we closed the curtains and turned on a light. I offered to shower first. As the hot water ran over my body I thought of what was to come and, surprisingly, I started to become aroused. I finished and wrapped a towel around me and went back to the room. Paul took my place. I pulled down the covers and sat on the bed. Paul took about 10 minutes and then came into the room, also wrapped in a towel. Now we previously had discussed our physical attributes (I was about 5 inches erect and Paul 6) and neither of us was hung as well as most of these stories go. Paul dropped his towel and I could see his obvious erection. We had previously agreed to start with oral sex with Paul going first. He dropped to his knees and hesitated. Then he swallowed my semi-erect member. The heat and moistness was incredible. I quickly hardened. Paul knew just what to do and he pulled away from my cock with a slurping sound and then took my balls in his hot mouth, one at a time. I strained and watched as he then slowly sunk his mouth over me again. My hands reached for his head as I started to pump into his mouth. We had agreed we would not cum in each other's mouth so I warned Paul that if he didn't stop he would be drinking my cum. Reluctantly, he released me. It was my turn for my first taste of a man. As Paul lay back his six inches stood rock hard. I could see the precum on the head and underside and could tell he had been terribly aroused. I closed my eyes and slid my lips over his swollen member. My tongue traced the underside of his cock and I was surprised that I didn't mind the taste. It was thick but not unpleasant. I swallowed him as far as I could and repeated the motion several times. Each time he would twitch involuntarily and his hips would thrust forward threatening to choke me. I wrapped my hand around the base to control the depth. Then I released him with my lips and licked his balls, making him shudder as I took one, than the other, into my hot mouth. I teased him like this for a while and then plunged his cock back in my mouth. I don't understand why some women don't like to do this. The feeling of control and power is enormous. Maybe it is just the difference between women and men, with men being much more attuned to raw sexuality. Paul grabbed my head and started pumping my mouth. He kept telling me to suck him. But I knew our plan and when I was certain that to continue would positively cause his eruption, I withdrew my mouth and told him to get on his knees. As he turned over I rose to my feet and reached to the bed stand where I unrolled a condom onto my rock hard member. Paul had told me it was his fantasy to be taken hard but I just could not purposely hurt him so I squeezed some ky jelly onto my sheathed penis and started to enter him, slowly. He moaned as I stretched him and at last I felt the head of my cock pop through the tight entrance. My God, it was like fucking a virgin. Then Paul pushed back against me and I sunk to the hilt. A loud groan escaped his lips. "Fuck me", he whispered as I pulled back and plunged again. The heat was incredible and I started pounding him. He seemed to whimper with each thrust and at last his knees collapsed. As I pounded him the friction of the bed on his penis caused him to cum. He seemed to never stop spurting. The sound of his orgasm caused me to erupt in a mind bending orgasm that was stronger than any I had ever had. We lay there a moment, spent. I withdrew. We both seemed embarrassed, no longer driven by the lust that had brought us together. We talked about the experience. Both of us came to the conclusion that we probably would prefer women but that this experience was powerful and totally sexual. We talked about our feelings during the oral sex and both of us felt if we had not had the plan we could easily had swallowed the others cum. As a matter of fact, we decided to save that experience for some future date. Maybe I'll write about it some time. We were both old enough and experienced enough not to fear for our sexuality. So that is how Paul and I lost of "virginity" on one warm spring day. I hope you enjoyed the story as much as we enjoyed the experience.